The Importance of Sleep for Young Learners
The importance of sleep for young learners is one of THE biggest factors when it comes to their life in the classroom the next day.
Sleep. The gateway to all things magical during waking hours!
I don’t think parents realize how much sleep affects a child’s learning processes. I can’t count how many times I’ve had this conversation:
Me: Mrs. —–, Johnny has been falling asleep in class / acting out/ not focusing and I’m concerned.
Mrs. —-: I don’t know why. He is in bed at 10:00 every night.
Me (in my head): Oh dear. TEN P.M.? As in, at night? When the news comes on? Seriously? This. Blows. My. Mind.
The first week of school I send home a letter to my parents about the importance of sleep. Maybe they really don’t know. Maybe they’ve never seen the chart on Pinterest. I just need everyone involved in that child’s life to know that I can’t teach kids who are not present and by present I mean participating in each moment.
I know when I’m tired, I mentally check out. Now imagine being a five year old with an already short attention span. You are fighting a losing battle when you begin the day with a tired child. It’s not their fault though. They can only give you what they have. You can’t expect 100% when they walk in the door with only 50% to give. Bless their hearts. They get on all of your nerves and you pull at their heart strings when they are in trouble ALL. THE. TIME. They don’t know why they can’t fully function and certainly don’t know how to verbalize what they need so they act out or they don’t act out and instead fall asleep.
Sleep deprivation leads to irritability, frustration and difficulty paying attention. Without enough sleep, the smallest amount of stress can seem like a mountain instead of a hill. We understand what we need as adults. We know we don’t function without rest so why do we not hold this in high regard for our children? Do they really need to watch another episode of their favorite show or play one more video game? The answer is no. All day. Every day. No. If you are the type of parent that struggles with “no”, please understand that you are saying no to so much more than an extra hour of television. You are saying no to learning more at school. You are saying no to your child’s ability to be patient and respond best in stressful circumstances. You are saying no to their achievements when the lack of “no” wins over sleep.
Real talk. Saying no in the right circumstance is okay. As parents it’s our job to do what’s best and that’s not always going to please our children. We are getting into a spiral with parenting where we want to give our kids free choice and independence
but that is not always developmentally appropriate and they don’t have the stamina yet to compete with adults.
So how can you help? First, you need to know what doctors recommend for your child.
I let my kids stay up later on the weekends but only if I know they can sleep later the next day. I know with my own children and that they will be beasts without enough sleep and it will affect EVERY part of our day. Ain’t nobody got time for
Understanding a child’s sensory needs is important too. When a child is over stimulated, they will not get good sleep. Watching television, playing video games and other similar activities should be limited before bedtime. Just like you need downtime to unwind your brain, so do they. They’ve got to stop those wheels from turning and close a few tabs in their brain before they can unwind enough to rest effectively.
We are losing our ability to function without some sort of stimulant. Try and keep your child’s bedroom dark and quiet if they aren’t scared. Train their brain the importance of feeling that peace and being relaxed without craving a stimulant (such as technology).
I realize that all of this is challenging but my kids are ages 15, 17, and 19. My youngest has a 9:00 bedtime on nights with no sports. The other two have a 10:00 bedtime. This is not because I’m trying to be strict or mean. It’s because I understand for them to do their best, their bodies need good sleep. When my youngest stays up late because he gets home late because of sports, you better believe the next morning is no fun.
As parents, we need to not feel guilty by setting schedules and boundaries for our children. A great day is worth more than an extra hour of video games the night before. I promise. And as a teacher, I appreciate you taking one for the team and making sure when your child enters my classroom, they are awake and ready to learn everything I’ve spent countless hours preparing. Just like you hope that when I am at school, I am awake, alert and present in every moment, I need your child to be also.
We’ve got to work together for the success of your child. That success starts with a good night’s sleep.